On changing and growing…

First of I’d like to say a big thank you to everyone who de-lurked on LOL day, it’s always lovely to hear from you!!! I’ve been keeping very busy recently with lots of spanking sessions and shoots, which is great fun, but I’ve had something on my mind a lot, and wanted to write about […]

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In which our heroine drinks mead and rambles

Yes, once again, I have failed to write and update my blog for a long time, but I know that I just need to get on and write, even if I feel I have nothing to say, and hopefully I will find that there are thoughts in my brain waiting to come out. I have […]

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A blog I didn’t want to have to write

But a blog that I have to write. Even now I’m procrastinating – tweeting and checking other websites cos I’m not sure how to write it, not sure I want to put things down in words. To see it in black and white on my screen, to post it on my website somehow makes it […]

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Catch Up

I hate the fact that I dont seem to be updating here very often at the moment, but there’s just so much stuff going on right now, that I’m too busy to tell you all about it all in great detail! So I’m just going to try and do a quick catch up of what […]

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Disappointments and Expectations

It’s currently 3:45pm on a Sunday afternoon, and I should be at home, on cam, doing my cam show. But I’m not. Why not? Because I’m unwell. Those of you who read my twitter will know what the problem is, but lets just say – it’s something that definitely doesn’t put me in a horny […]

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Severity?

Once more, a post by Kaelah, over at Ludwig’s Rohrstock Palast (this post, if you want to check it out for yourselves), has inspired me to write a blog myself. This time, I’m not going to quote anyone out of context, but simply answer a question which was posed in the thread on Chross’s message […]

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So…. Which do you prefer?

I imagine I’m not the only switch who gets a little fed up with the question “so which do you prefer to be, dom or sub?” To me the implications of that feels similar to the assumption that bisexual folks just haven’t “picked a side” yet, that you can’t have an equal desire for both. […]

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Fun Times

I love being in the studio and shooting, and I do get a bit………… frustrated when I can’t create new things, so this week The Boss and I have done a couple of impromtu shoots. The first came at the end of a long day of editing some really hot stuff, and I was more […]

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Long Term Relationships

I’ve been in “long term relationships” in the past, but they always started to break down at around the 18 month mark, and by 2 years, the relationship was over. Then I’d be single for a couple of months, before starting the next relationship, and the cycle would repeat itself. Looking back, I know exactly […]

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