Musings - Nimue Allen

A blog I didn’t want to have to write

Posted on September 4, 2012January 10, 2025 by Nimue Allen

But a blog that I have to write. Even now I’m procrastinating – tweeting and checking other websites cos I’m not sure how to write it, not sure I want to put things down in words. To see it in black and white on my screen, to post it on my website somehow makes it […]

Severity?

Posted on June 25, 2012January 10, 2025 by Nimue Allen

Once more, a post by Kaelah, over at Ludwig’s Rohrstock Palast (this post, if you want to check it out for yourselves), has inspired me to write a blog myself. This time, I’m not going to quote anyone out of context, but simply answer a question which was posed in the thread on Chross’s message […]

So…. Which do you prefer?

Posted on June 8, 2012January 10, 2025 by Nimue Allen

I imagine I’m not the only switch who gets a little fed up with the question “so which do you prefer to be, dom or sub?” To me the implications of that feels similar to the assumption that bisexual folks just haven’t “picked a side” yet, that you can’t have an equal desire for both. […]

The Pain I don’t Like

Posted on May 2, 2012January 10, 2025 by Nimue Allen

I should be getting on with editing at the moment, but I’ve had a load of stuff going round my head since my shoot on Sunday that I wanted to get down. Most of the time when I’m playing with The Boss, we play with the sort of pain I like in the areas I […]

Trust in Topping

Posted on April 18, 2012January 10, 2025 by Nimue Allen

In bdsm, trust is an important factor, not just the sub trusting the top, but also the top trusting their bottom. For me, a lot of the time when I’m topping on camera, I dont look relaxed or like I’m really enjoying it – more just that I’m working through the script in my head, […]

Fear and paranoia?

Posted on April 17, 2012January 10, 2025 by Nimue Allen

Tomorrow night, R and I are planning on going to the cinema to see The Cabin In The Woods. I know, not terribly worthy of a blog post, but it has got me thinking…. When I was at school, I was bullied for 4 years because of my sexuality. I knew from when I was […]

Emotional Masochism

Posted on March 9, 2012January 10, 2025 by Nimue Allen

I’ve always know that I’m a masochist I love physical pain in so many different ways. I love the sensations, I love the brutality, I love that society tells us it’s wrong. It turns me on, cleanses me, invigorates me and leaves me feeling alive. But there is more than just physical pain. Emotional pain […]