Severity?

Once more, a post by Kaelah, over at Ludwig’s Rohrstock Palast (this post, if you want to check it out for yourselves), has inspired me to write a blog myself. This time, I’m not going to quote anyone out of context, but simply answer a question which was posed in the thread on Chross’s message […]

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So…. Which do you prefer?

I imagine I’m not the only switch who gets a little fed up with the question “so which do you prefer to be, dom or sub?” To me the implications of that feels similar to the assumption that bisexual folks just haven’t “picked a side” yet, that you can’t have an equal desire for both. […]

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Fun Times

I love being in the studio and shooting, and I do get a bit………… frustrated when I can’t create new things, so this week The Boss and I have done a couple of impromtu shoots. The first came at the end of a long day of editing some really hot stuff, and I was more […]

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Long Term Relationships

I’ve been in “long term relationships” in the past, but they always started to break down at around the 18 month mark, and by 2 years, the relationship was over. Then I’d be single for a couple of months, before starting the next relationship, and the cycle would repeat itself. Looking back, I know exactly […]

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Emotional Masochism

I’ve always know that I’m a masochist I love physical pain in so many different ways. I love the sensations, I love the brutality, I love that society tells us it’s wrong. It turns me on, cleanses me, invigorates me and leaves me feeling alive. But there is more than just physical pain. Emotional pain […]

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