Headshaving – During

I’ve already written about the whys and the preparation for my headshaving scene here The day of the shoot arrived, and I have to admit to being a bit of a mess. I got up early to wash my long hair for the last time, and then did the last bits of packing I needed […]

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Headshaving – Before

When I first started performing in porn, I had two big fantasies, two big things that I knew I would do at some point before I stopped being in front of the camera. Those two things were breast suspension, and headshaving. The first happened some years back now, one of those moments where everything came […]

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Why Pain?

It’s a question which comes up fairly regularly when talking with non-kinky folk. “Why do you like being hurt?”, “Doesn’t that hurt?”, “But how can pain be sexy?” People can engage in consensual pain play for a lot of reasons, I can’t assume to speak for everyone, but I can explain why I do it. […]

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Ethical Porn

Nearly a year ago, Pandora, D, AJ and I met with a journalist, in a London pub, to talk about ethical porn for an article. After a couple of months, I think we had all assumed that the piece would never be published, and forgot all about it. But it has been published today (you […]

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Facilitating

One of the most recent video updates on Dreams of Spanking is Aftercare Spanking, with myself and David Weston.  It’s a scene I loved shooting at the time (David has both a delightful bottom, and a wonderful personality), but it’s only since it was published that I realise that the story behind it is one […]

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What’s Changed – Part 1

On the surface of it, it doesn’t really look like all that much has changed on my website, and that’s probably true.  Most of the changes have been things that you won’t see when you stop by! The major change that you can’t see is the fact that this website is now, 100%, entirely MINE, […]

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Why One Ring Cannot Rule Them All

So, over on fetlife there has been some interesting discussions going on around appropriate behaviour when wanting to play with someone when out at a club. The three posts were titled”Why I will never ask your Dom for permission” (the post that started it all, and has since been deleted), “Why I will always ask […]

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Limbo

I’ve totally got out of the habit of writing here this year, haven’t I? I’m not quite sure why, other than the fact that life has been going through a lot of changes over the past 12 months, and I haven’t been ready to share it all. I’m still not quite ready to share all […]

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Rosie B On Being Exploited

As I was travelling home from my wonderful shoot and camming session with the lovely Spanking Sarah on Tuesday morning, a debate erupted on twitter about whether or not porn is exploitative. Pandora Blake was inspired to write a blog post here with her views. Rosie B also had something to say about her experiences […]

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