Reflections on punishment

I’m slowly beginning to realise that I don’t like punishment. I mean, I know you’re not meant to like it, that’s kinda the point of punishment. What I mean is that the punishment dynamic does very little for me these days, especially if I (or the character I’m playing, in the case of roleplay) am […]

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KOTW – Anonymous Sex

My 26th birthday is a night that I doubt I’ll ever forget. It was a seriously intense night from start to finish, even before we’d left the house on our way to the swingers club we visited often. But the real fun started once we arrived. We’d been there several times before, knew the people […]

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Kink of the Week – Urolagnia

wrote this several weeks ago when the Kink of the Week *was* actually Urolagnia, but for some reason, entirely failed to publish it.  So, here it is, very late, but still interesting (I hope!) Urolagnia. A fetish which sexual excitement is associated with the sight or thought of urine or urination A simple enough concept, […]

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Bigger is Good

This is another one of those posts where I start by saying “when I started producing porn, I wasn’t doing it to make a statement”. I started producing porn because it seemed like an enjoyable way for me to make a living. But I am still realising that the content I make is radical on […]

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Is Porn Empowering?

“Can porn be empowering for women?” That’s the question being asked a lot this week, prompted by the Women’s Hour debate which took place on Sunday, asking this question. I was not able to attend the debate unlike people who have blogged about it already, but I wanted to add my thoughts on the matter. […]

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My Body Is Powerful

Despite my love of humiliation play based around my size, I do get insecure about the way I look from time to time. My body is bigger than I’d like, and it doesn’t always allow me to do the things I want, or to do those things for as long as I’d like. There’s times […]

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KOTW – Blood Play

I love blood play. And it’s difficult to explain why without turning into a puddle! I remember the first bit of porn that got me interested in needle play and blood play, and that was an old Insex.com movie called The Proposal – Part 2. I can still remember the scene now. As viewers, we […]

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KOTW – Crying

When I started doing BDSM, it was very rare that I played a scene that didn’t leave me crying, it was just how every scene was expected to go.  Now, I cry more rarely, and when I do, it’s because I’ve chosen to. When I was younger, engaging in BDSM, I was bottling up a […]

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