Why Pain?

It’s a question which comes up fairly regularly when talking with non-kinky folk. “Why do you like being hurt?”, “Doesn’t that hurt?”, “But how can pain be sexy?” People can engage in consensual pain play for a lot of reasons, I can’t assume to speak for everyone, but I can explain why I do it. […]

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Big Location Shoot 2014

I’m away on holiday for a few days at the moment, and seem to have picked up the cold that the people I’m away with have got.  So rather than going out again today, I’m having a quiet day on the sofa, wtching the food network, drinking tea, and watching the pile of used tissues […]

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Severity

I’ve fallen into the trap before – looking at a picture on fetlife, showing a welted and bloody bottom after a hard caning and thinking “wow, that’s impressive, I wish I could do that”.  It’s an easy trap to fall into, but why? Why is that severe caning better, more impressive, something to strive for? […]

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Ethical Porn

Nearly a year ago, Pandora, D, AJ and I met with a journalist, in a London pub, to talk about ethical porn for an article. After a couple of months, I think we had all assumed that the piece would never be published, and forgot all about it. But it has been published today (you […]

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Facilitating

One of the most recent video updates on Dreams of Spanking is Aftercare Spanking, with myself and David Weston.  It’s a scene I loved shooting at the time (David has both a delightful bottom, and a wonderful personality), but it’s only since it was published that I realise that the story behind it is one […]

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What’s Changed – Part 1

On the surface of it, it doesn’t really look like all that much has changed on my website, and that’s probably true.  Most of the changes have been things that you won’t see when you stop by! The major change that you can’t see is the fact that this website is now, 100%, entirely MINE, […]

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Spanked to submission

Yesterday was a very busy day, not only was it launch day for my World, but it was a day I got to spend with The Boss. It was great to see him, and spend some quality time together.  We were both incredibly busy over the summer, so didn’t see each other much at all, […]

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Today’s The Day

Today is the day that I’ve been waiting for for over a year now. The day that my website is back up and running, and 100% owned by me. There’s a long story behind the change, but today is not the day for that. Today is the day for celebrations! I have The Boss here […]

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