Severity

I’ve fallen into the trap before – looking at a picture on fetlife, showing a welted and bloody bottom after a hard caning and thinking “wow, that’s impressive, I wish I could do that”.  It’s an easy trap to fall into, but why? Why is that severe caning better, more impressive, something to strive for? […]

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What’s Changed – Part 1

On the surface of it, it doesn’t really look like all that much has changed on my website, and that’s probably true.  Most of the changes have been things that you won’t see when you stop by! The major change that you can’t see is the fact that this website is now, 100%, entirely MINE, […]

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Spanked to submission

Yesterday was a very busy day, not only was it launch day for my World, but it was a day I got to spend with The Boss. It was great to see him, and spend some quality time together.  We were both incredibly busy over the summer, so didn’t see each other much at all, […]

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Today’s The Day

Today is the day that I’ve been waiting for for over a year now. The day that my website is back up and running, and 100% owned by me. There’s a long story behind the change, but today is not the day for that. Today is the day for celebrations! I have The Boss here […]

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Why One Ring Cannot Rule Them All

So, over on fetlife there has been some interesting discussions going on around appropriate behaviour when wanting to play with someone when out at a club. The three posts were titled”Why I will never ask your Dom for permission” (the post that started it all, and has since been deleted), “Why I will always ask […]

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Limbo

I’ve totally got out of the habit of writing here this year, haven’t I? I’m not quite sure why, other than the fact that life has been going through a lot of changes over the past 12 months, and I haven’t been ready to share it all. I’m still not quite ready to share all […]

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Rosie B On Being Exploited

As I was travelling home from my wonderful shoot and camming session with the lovely Spanking Sarah on Tuesday morning, a debate erupted on twitter about whether or not porn is exploitative. Pandora Blake was inspired to write a blog post here with her views. Rosie B also had something to say about her experiences […]

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Part of the problem….

With sharing my thoughts via my blog at the moment, I think, is because I feel rediculously happy most of the time. And since Saturday morning, that’s been even more so. I feel like I’m on a total high on life right now, and somehow writing about it doesn’t seem quite right. Part of me […]

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