I often have sessions on cam where I wonder if the person on the other end of things is actually getting what they want out of the experience. Whether their silence and vagueness is because they are really getting into what I’m doing, or if they are just too scared to tell me what they want.
So, I’ve decided to put together a guide. A “how to get the best out of your camshow” type thing.
Before the show
- Read their profile. The profile is there to get a basic feel for the performers interests and limits. Feel free to ask questions about things which are not covered in the profile, but asking questions which are answered there just makes annoying. And annoying a performer is not a way to get a good show.
- The profile also has photos. These photos mean you can see what the perfomer looks like without having to pester them to “stand up/turn around/show me your ass plz bb”
- Is the performer you want a private show with in free chat? If so, say hello to them there. Ask them if they’re ready to go private. Don’t take them straight into exclusive without saying a word to them first.
Once you’re in the show
- Greet your performer. Say hello, exchange names, ask them how they are.
- If they ask you questions, respond to them. Don’t immediately launch into a monologue of your fantasy the moment you are in private chat. It makes us wonder if there’s a problem with our stream which means you can’t see/hear us.
- TELL US if you have no sound. Especially if you see us talking.
- Tell us your fantasy, tell us what you want us to do, tell us what you’d like to see. We spend our days talking to people about their fetishes, and it honestly makes me feel sad when people are ashamed of their fetishes. Camgirls have heard just about anything and everything, don’t be scared to tell us what makes you tick.
- We want to give you a show you’ll enjoy. We can only do this if you tell us what you want. See above point.
At the end of your show
- We’re aware you’re probably going to want to run off and get cleaned up, but if you can stick around long enough to say “thanks and bye”, we’d appreciate it. If you suddenly disappear, it can leave us feeling like we’re not sure if you enjoyed or if you got fed up. See above re: giving you a show you enjoy.
- If you did enjoy your show, please rate us, leave us feedback, or tag us.
Now, I’m just one camgirl, and not all cam performers are the same, so some of the above points may not be valid for other performers. But if there was just one thing I could say, one tip for getting better camshows, for making sure that you get the show you want –
Tell the performer of your choice what you would like to see, what you’re into, and what gets you off.
It’s as simple as that. We’re not mind readers. We’re not going to be able to guess what “oh, the usual stuff” means to you. We’re pretty sure that when you say you’re into “anything” you’re not actually into “anything”. We’re also pretty sure that you don’t want us proving to you that you’re not into “anything”. Unless you want to try wanking off while I stand on my head and sing show tunes!