One of the most recent video updates on Dreams of Spanking is Aftercare Spanking, with myself and David Weston. It’s a scene I loved shooting at the time (David has both a delightful bottom, and a wonderful personality), but it’s only since it was published that I realise that the story behind it is one I particularly enjoy, and which plays to possibly my ultimate BDSM interest – facilitating other’s enjoyment.
In this scene, I play David’s girlfriend, who’s waiting at home for him to come back after his first ever caning. I rub lotion into his welted bottom, enjoying hearing his thoughts about his experience, before giving him a playful spanking which leaves him giggling and pushing his bottom up to meet each spank.
It’s not the first time that Pandora has cast me in a scene where I play a character who’s partner is exploring kink outside the relationship (The Professional Disciplinarian is the other one which springs immediately to mind), and the more I think about it, the more I realise that I love introducing people to new things, allowing them to follow their desires and explore. It’s something that I’ve brought a lot to shooting for my site – introducing Zarina to intricate rope bondage, or Thomas Cameron’s first puppy play, but it’s something I bring to my life off camera as well.
For me, there is no thrill like that of being able to watch someone I care about trying out new things, or being the one to give a friend an experience they’ve been curious about for some time. Seeing someone’s reaction the first time a needle pierces their skin, or they pierce my skin. Helping someone learn how to breathe through the pain, how to process it, how to keep it from consuming them, but instead to allow it to flow through them.
And their smile afterwards…. That’s what makes it all worthwhile.