Memories from a Holiday

I’ve been seeing the chap for a little while now, and not long ago he took me away for a dirty weekend (well, Monday – Wednesday) in a lovely hotel near Hay-On-Wye. I’ve been trying to blog about it in some sort of chronological order, but so much happened, I think I am just going […]

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The Top Who Wasn’t

The following is a guest post that I feel honoured to share, but before I do I want to try and explain what this post means to me. You see, it’s a beautiful blog post written for me by The Chap, about a particularly special night we spent together over the holidays. It talks about […]

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KOTW – Anonymous Sex

My 26th birthday is a night that I doubt I’ll ever forget. It was a seriously intense night from start to finish, even before we’d left the house on our way to the swingers club we visited often. But the real fun started once we arrived. We’d been there several times before, knew the people […]

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Kink of the Week – Urolagnia

wrote this several weeks ago when the Kink of the Week *was* actually Urolagnia, but for some reason, entirely failed to publish it.  So, here it is, very late, but still interesting (I hope!) Urolagnia. A fetish which sexual excitement is associated with the sight or thought of urine or urination A simple enough concept, […]

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Fat Pig

I love humiliation.  Or rather, I love things that most people would view as humiliation. I love when The Boss calls me a “fat pig”, when he tells me I’m a disgusting slut, that I’m filthy, and perverted, and wrong.  Because I am all those things.  But I feel no shame in being the things […]

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Why Pain?

It’s a question which comes up fairly regularly when talking with non-kinky folk. “Why do you like being hurt?”, “Doesn’t that hurt?”, “But how can pain be sexy?” People can engage in consensual pain play for a lot of reasons, I can’t assume to speak for everyone, but I can explain why I do it. […]

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